*waving hello* New here, need your support :)

Hello!  I am new here and really hoping to find the support (and tough love) I need to get my butt in gear.  Here’s my stats: I am starting at 164 pounds and want to get down to 130 pounds.  I was down to 156, then lost my grip and quickly gained 8 pounds back.  I don’t want to gain back any more!  I worked too hard to lose those pounds.  And I don’t want the blasted things back! :)

I’m not sure what happens.  I just sometimes feel sad and hopeless, and it makes it hard to really believe I can do this. 

I don’t believe in feeling sorry for myself or wallowing around whining about wanting to be thin while I shove fistfuls of junk food into my mouth though!  I want to be strong and fit.  I want to like how I look and how I feel.  I want to be the person I know I can be, if I put my mind to it and stick to it.

7 Comments so far

  1. kristenmckeever @ November 4th, 2009

    Don’t be so hard on yourself is my best piece of advice to you.

    This is a journey and there are gonna be bumps in the road, granted I had hills for bumps in my journey but just because you gained a little weight back doesn’t mean you can’t do it, just means you have to work a little harder which means the end result it gonna feel even better!

  2. redbutterfly @ November 4th, 2009

    Thanks for commenting! I feel so out of control when I get off track and lose my focus and stop believing I can do this. I know this will be a good place to get the support I need to lose this weight for good!

  3. khmerbeauty @ November 4th, 2009

    *WAVES BACK* Welcome to buddyslim. You can certainly lose weight and yes some of us, well, I’m great at giving tough love - are you sure you can handle it? :)

    I hope you start your journey right now - go for a walk. Then come back and let us know how it went. :)

  4. melaleuca @ November 4th, 2009

    I have been on the roller coaster ride of losing weight for over 3 years. I was at one point down to 160lbs. and gained everything back. Stay positive and just keep telling yourself you have to do this. I have decided this time around my weight is not coming back!!! Just stay focused and if you get off track remember tomorrow is always a new day!!!

  5. redbutterfly @ November 4th, 2009

    I can handle it! :) And yes, I plan to start right now. Well, after I get home and can work out, that is!

  6. AuntTeeTee @ November 4th, 2009

    Welcome aboard! you have found the perfect place for support! Let us know how your workout/walk goes

  7. redbutterfly @ November 4th, 2009

    I will! This is great, now I feel like I have to work out, or else Nancy and AuntTeeTee are going to kick my rear, ha ha :)

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